How to Set a Romantic Dinner Table for Two

In this article

1. Choosing the right atmosphere
2. Romantic table setting ideas
3. Adding personal touches
4. Dessert as the highlight of the evening
5. Final flourishes
6. A sweet ending 
    

Celebrate this Valentine’s Day with an intimate romantic dinner setting in the comfort of your own home. No phone calls to restaurants, no online bookings and no background chatter. Just you, your date and an evening crafted around your favourite things. With our polished guide to dining greatness, you can transform your dining table into a stage for connection and conversation with a few finishing touches courtesy of After Eight®.

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1. Choosing the right atmosphere 

Romance is a feeling, and to capture the essence in an intimate dinner setting, there’s nothing quite like mood lighting. Sure, the candlelit table is a romantic dinner setting staple, but a few more simple touches can create a special ambience. Think clusters of LED tea lights, flameless tapered candles or elegant lanterns scattered strategically around the room. For a softer glow that can either pulse slowly or be static, drape fairy lights around the area. Always opt for warm light instead of white light to create that romantic golden glow.  

Pair the lighting with soft music that enhances the mood instead of distracting conversation. Soft jazz, acoustic love songs, Latin guitar, or a curated playlist that includes songs you both love. The idea is to wrap the evening in an atmosphere that feels warm, intentional and unmistakably romantic. 
 

 2. Romantic table setting ideas  

A colour scheme is essential for setting the scene because it ties everything together. Deep reds and golds whisper opulence, while crisp whites and pastel tones lean into timeless romance. If you prefer a minimalist approach, go for neutral tones paired with sleek cutlery and glassware for a modern feel. Consider your menu and make sure the weight of the food matches the intensity of the colour scheme.

You can also play with height and perspective using centrepieces but always keep it elegant and fuss-free. Maybe you’re leaning towards a vase of seasonal wildflowers or your partner's favourite blooms – just remember to avoid centrepieces that block your view of each other. A scattering of rose petals or a simple row or cluster of candles at different heights will complete the look. Layer in polished plates, neatly folded napkins, and stemmed glasses for an extra touch of refinement. Aim for a setting that feels like an occasion without straying into clutter. 
 

3. Adding personal touches 

Personal touches and thoughtful gestures are what turn great dinners into even better memories. Put your knowledge of your partner to good use and create a series of happy moments throughout the night. Start with an invitation to dinner: digital is good, handwritten is even better.

The element of surprise is a powerful tool so keep the theme under wraps until the last minute. A printed menu, an inspiring quote or a playful fortune cookie are all great ideas. A secret love note tucked under their wine glass will melt hearts and if you need inspiration, read our Sweet Messages for Valentine’s Day article.  

A menu including your partner’s favourite dishes is a stroke of genius and when paired with a wine, well, now you’re hitting the upper echelons of romantic dining. These personal touches show thought, care, and appreciation. Even if you’re no master-chef in the kitchen, the little gestures along the way and how you made your partner feel are what will be remembered.

4. Dessert as the highlight of the evening

For a fuss-free ending to your soirée that combines simplicity and sophistication, you can’t go wrong with After Eight®. The rich and intense dark chocolate and silky peppermint fondant make every ending sweeter. For an easy yet impactful boost, try pairing your After Eight® with a fresh fruit platter, or end the evening with a coffee or liqueur pairing. 
 

For those looking to elevate their dessert experience, we have a collection of After Eight® recipes for you to try.

1. After Eight® Chocolate Brownie – Rich, dark and delicious with a lingering peppermint flavour.
2. After Eight® Cheesecake – Smooth and creamy with pops of After Eight®.
3. After Eight® Ice Cream – A delicious and easy no-churn ice cream.
4. After Eight® Cocktail – Rich, creamy and paired with an After Eight®.

 

5. Final flourishes 

The beauty of dining at home lies in the slower pace. There’s no waiter hovering, no rush to finish dessert before the next reservation arrives. Instead, linger over conversation, savour the food and relish the moment you’ve created together. If you feel like one final surprise and laugh to end the evening, read our Guide to the After Eight® Game.  

6. A sweet ending

A romantic dinner setting doesn’t need to be extravagant to feel unforgettable. Soft lighting, thoughtful tableware, small details, and After Eight® are your keys to an experience that can rival any restaurant. For more how-to guides, delicious recipes and clever ideas, sign up for our monthly newsletter.